Kal's Korner 6/23
Marriage - It's Not Just a Good Idea - It's God's Great Idea - Genesis 2

The Word: Marriage – It’s Not Just a Good Idea – It’s God’s Great Idea - Genesis 2
On this very day, June 24, 1983, Lori and I said to one another, “I do.” “I do.” These two words set us on a journey that has truly been blessed by God: Love! Laughter! Loss! Life!
- 36 Years of marriage and counting!!
- Three awesome children and their spouses
- Three awesome grandchildren (and one more on “her” way, due Oct. 2019)
- Over 33 Years serving the Lord in full-time pastoral and teaching church work
(Lori began her teaching career 36 years ago in St. Louis, MO and Pastor Kal was ordained on July 20, 1986 at his home church in Great Falls, Montana 33 years ago)
Genesis 2:18, 21-24, “Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper corresponding to him.”….21 So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh.22 And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made] into a woman and brought her to the man. 23 Then the man said,
“This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman,
because she was taken out of Man.”
24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” ESV
Marriage – It’s Not Just a Good Idea – It’s God’s Great Idea
Given the way creation unfolds, how it builds to ever higher and higher works of art, light/darkness, water/land, sun/moon, animals/plants can there be any doubt that Eve is the crown of creation? She is not an afterthought. Eve is not a nice addition like an ornament on a tree. She is God's final touch, his finest work. She fills a place in the world nothing and no one else can fill and so it is with every wife God has given every husband.
And God calls man/husbands to love her. It is not hard. She is a gift. She is beauty. She is a million sunrises and a million sunsets.
Her husband is loved by her through her respect for him. He is not loved due to demanding domination, rather the wife’s respect for her husband comes out of the reservoir of love God has placed in the woman’s heart. This love comes naturally by design and is best received by man through respect.
This respect shows up when there are no others. When there is no one else – not even the man himself in his own thinking. When everyone else thinks the man/the husband not worthy or good or does not have all that it takes – there will be one standing there believing that he is – that he is a gift, that he is good, that he does have all that it takes to protect, to provide, to love.
And respected, the husband responds in the language of the woman – he loves her in great acts and small. She thinking and knowing she is beauty to him and assured there is no other, but her beloved.
To all the marriage anniversaries in June, to every marriage January to December for that matter. Such is God’s gift to each husband and wife. To each who abide in the life given through the Jesus. Love. Respect. Life.
Amen.
P.S. Don’t miss this coming Sunday at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church
3rd Sunday after Pentecost – Pastor Kal on Galatians 5… The goal is not just to have faith IN Jesus, but to have the faith OF Jesus.
See you at 8:30 a.m. or 10:00 a.m.
Finally – Keep prayers going for healing for Pastor Kal (back surgery), and for staff and church leaders at conferences this week.
God bless
In Jesus
Pastor Kal








